As childhood anxiety rises and many parents struggle with fears about safety, how much independence should children really have?
In this episode of the Where Parents Talk podcast, host Lianne Castelino speaks to journalist, author and Let Grow co-founder Lenore Skenazy. She explores why giving children age-appropriate independence is one of the most powerful ways to build confidence, resilience and emotional well-being.
Skenazy explains how modern parenting culture has become increasingly risk-averse despite evidence that children benefit from opportunities to solve problems, navigate challenges and develop autonomy. She discusses the lasting impact of overparenting, the importance of manageable risk, the value of free play, and why many parents’ perceptions of danger don’t always match reality.
The conversation also examines how schools, communities and public policy can support healthier childhood development, why children consistently say they want more unstructured time with friends instead of more screen time, and how parents can gradually help kids become more capable, independent and prepared for adulthood.
LENORE SKENAZY
Journalist
Entrepreneur
President and Co-founder, Let Grow,
Founder, Free Range Kids Movement
Former Columnist, New York Daily News
Speaker
Author
Mom of 2
““The only thing that moves the needle is literally sitting with your anxiety for half an hour while you let your kid walk to the store, ride their bike, climb a tree, go to a friend’s house.”
