What if the secret to better behaviour isn’t stricter discipline—but stronger connection?
In this episode of the Where Parents Talk podcast, host Lianne Castelino speaks to Lorena Seidel, educator, emotional intelligence coach, author and mom.
Seidel introduces the Cooperation Shift, a powerful framework that helps parents move from controlling behaviour to mentoring emotional growth. Backed by research and real-life experience, this approach empowers parents to raise resilient, emotionally intelligent children who can navigate life’s challenges with confidence.
Seidel shares why many parents repeat patterns they swore they’d avoid—and how to break free using practical tools like the “skill do-over.” By shifting your mindset and learning to respond (instead of react), you can foster cooperation, reduce conflict, and build a stronger, more respectful relationship with your child.
In this episode, you will learn:
- Improve communication and reduce family conflict
- Build emotional intelligence in kids and teens
- Replace punishment with effective, respectful discipline
- Raise confident, resilient young adults
LORENA SEIDEL
Educator
Emotional Intelligence Coach
TedX Speaker
Former Montessori Teacher
Human Development Expert
Author
Mother of 3
“We read the books, we go to the talks, we have the best intentions… and it all sounds great until we’re in the heat of the moment. And I realized I don’t have an information problem—I lack access. I cannot access those great strategies when I need them the most.”
